first i want to start by saying that i was so sorry to read about your divorce. 20 years is a long time and no matter what the circumstances were, i’m sure it wasn’t easy.

starting over is very important and a butterfly tattoo would make a great choice. You can view the tattoo pictures that we have: http://www.kooltattoos.com/butterfly-tattoos, for ideas.

if want to see good quality butterfly designs go to the reviews page: http://www.kooltattoos.com/tattoo-galleries-reviews to read more about your options. (i think the first one will be the best for you. not only that they have lots of beautiful butterfly designs, there’s also a huge members area that you can get inspired by)

if you know how to do some photo editing (with “paint”, for example), you would be able to create your own design (recommended), that way you know that you own a unique and meaningful tattoo. just make sure that use only quality designs – for a better outcome.

hope i have been helpful. don’t hesitate to contact me if you have more questions.

Dave